How to convert a potential tinder matches into a sugar daddy

After chatting with the potential sugar daddy on the tinder a bit, when it gets to a point that it seems like they may want to meet, I stop them and ask the usual questions- "Have you ever been a sugar daddy before? Why are you on Tinder and not SA? I have [XYZ] allowance expectations, does that work for you?"

If they answer all my questions satisfactorily, then we can set up a meet. Don't waste time meeting people who may not meet your expectations.

If the conversation is going south at any point- I mean if they start saying things like "Well what does daddy get in exchange for sugar?" or if they start flipping out on you or getting too sexual- just unmatch and move on.

And don't try to engage with people who claim to not know what a sugar baby is- if they've been on Tinder for more than 5 seconds with their age range adjusted to include women under 30, TRUST ME they know what a sugar baby is.

Looking at Tinder from the perspective of a man in his late 40s opened my eyes to that fact. Men who want to waste your time getting you to "explain sugar" are just... wasting time.

Back in my trial and error phase of using Tinder, I actually spoke to a man who said he had no intentions of being a sugar daddy, he just wanted a pretty girl to chat with him for a bit lol. These guys exist on sugar daddy websie too of course, but they're a bit harder than.

If your strictly looking for an sugar daddy on tinder, you wouldn’t put anything referring to the lifestyle or maybe be vaguely creative hinting around sugar.

Anyone I started engaging with I would not bring up or hint about spoiling, sugaring, etc. Continue to build value in your conversation. Once they initiate they want to meet, Then tell them something along the lines that I would love to meet, but if I may be honest before we spare each others time i want you to know that I solely interested in an sugar relationship.

When you throw that out there you will see how they respond. That’s one way to successfully weed them out to get close to finding your pot in the dark.

I made a "joke" about it in my bio. My bio is "I heard there were snacks and sugar daddies here" and about 80% of my responses are from guys saying "well I can give you snacks." Swiping for about 3 or 4 days off and on and I've already come across 4 guys that I recognize on sugar daddy websites, and I'm not even in a big city.